I just got an email from Sabrina's (initial) social worker, who says that no, she can't approve Sabrina calling mom. They are having the family team meeting as I type, and the GAL should also be asking. Hopefully at least we'll get permission to call Auntie or Daddy. The initial court hearing is tomorrow and the social worker is still expressing confidence that Sabrina will go to family tomorrow. That would make us all very happy, but I'm not holding my breath.